Saturday 29 August 2009

My Project for the evening...

The house is spanking tidy now...Time for a quick coffee.. And then I'm gonna spray weed n feed on the lawns, rake the garden, tidy up the hanging baskets for tomorrows new plants, go & have a beer at The Mean Fiddler tonight(http://www.meanfiddler.com.au/events/whats-on/)...
and watch The Reader... 

Will go out to the driving range (http://www.raveaboutit.com.au/business_listing/Dural-Golf-Driving-Range-Dural-Golf-Driving-Range/28569-28572.html)  in Dural tomorrow early morning to hit a hundred odd balls...  and then go over to Flower Power (http://www.flowerpower.com.au/glenhaven.html)to pick up some seasonal flowers and enjoy a cuppa! Will take the rest of the day as it comes...

Update from Down under...

Kanika had basketball on thursday... cooked Thai Chicken & Rice for Dinner.. I had a busy friday working at Kellyville Pets & Robert Cliff Master Jewellers. Simba went for grooming.. was given a summer cut. Kanika had Jess over after school as they needed to work on a french assignment. I tidied up the house, made Singapore Noodles with Meat balls and Sweet & Sour Sauce. Jess & Kanika loved it! Later had a lovely chat with Jess's mum when she came to pick up Jess. I sang on the Karaoke for a while..
Molly & Riya came over to play with Kanika and left after an hour. I watched Seven Years in Tibet. Fantastic movie in which Brad Pitt looked awesome!

Kanika goes to her Mum after dance today and will be back tomorrow. I intend to relax and work in the garden and go to the driving range to play golf on Sunday..
Mum, Dad & the family along with Tanuka, Ja & Nisha would be immersing Bindo Chachaji's ashes in the Holy Ganges today at Hardwar.. and then proceeding to Palampur.. Wish them peace, strength & happiness in times to come...

Thursday 27 August 2009

A very special day

This is a brief post just to convey to everyone that we all witnessed a very special ceremony today at Acklam Crematorium. The service was heart rendering and special and appreciated by everyone present.
The get together that followed at the Middlesbrough Rugby Club was emotional. The turn out at both events was excellent and everyone remembered Bindo Chachaji as a very special person, a loving friend and a caring doctor.
All day I met so many people all of whom remembered my uncle so fondly and made me feel so very proud and special, just to have been his nephew.
And I must say well done to Tanuka, Sujata and Nisha (and Simon) for putting on such an excellent show.

Wednesday 26 August 2009

Another Beautiful Day!

I had the most amazing day today.. Worked with Michelle Page, ex-wife of Greg Page of The Wiggles (The Yellow Guy) at Bellavista. We got talking and she took an instant liking to me. Sadly she too just got her divorce in May this Year so there was lots to talk about. Michelle told me that Greg had moved into an acreage in Dural with his girlfriend. 
I later met with Suzy Sloane,  a dear client of mine and she gave me some wonderful advice which I have instantly taken on board & implemented. 
My last appointment was with Damien Tudehope at West Pennant Hills of O'Hara & Company Lawyers. He has nine kids and I was touched to see such amazing bonding within the family. He too gave me some wonderful advice on handling situations and interpersonal issues as he is a solicitor and handles high profile cases.
Isn't it wonderful to have such wonderful clients who are more of mates and less of clients and what more they pay me for hanging out with them!

Tuesday 25 August 2009

Great news...

I have had the most amazing time work-wise as an IT consultant  over the past fifteen months with a 100% strike rate and all proposals and fixes going thru... I wish I had more than 24 hrs in a day and more than the 5 hrs that I am able to work as a single parent although I truly enjoy the aspect of looking after Kanika & Simba who are both wonderful aspects of my life.. I have been turning down work as my referral clients have been doing great marketing for me. It feels great to be appreciated.. 
I will be expanding and starting new projects and building my business now that Kanika & Home have been sorted out... And yes I will start exploring the opportunities that lie ahead of me on my personal & professional front as I have an unfinished agenda to fulfill ...

Sunday 23 August 2009

More thoughts...

I broke my 22yr old clean driving accident free record!

After driving for over two decades across several countries without a single accident, I was involved in my first accident and feel sad to have my first but that's life! Luckily Kanika was fine and nobody was injured. I will have to go tomorrow and complete the paperwork as the car has been towed away. The have promised to fix the car in seven working days. We took a taxi home as I didn't want a standby car.

Thoughts for the day..





Saturday 22 August 2009

Holidays




a little later than promised....

This year we chose to go to Taba Heights, Sinai, Egypt for our family holiday. We had a week of clear blue skies, sunshine and high temperatures (a welcome change from all the rain back home)

We tried snorkeling in the Red Sea, which was amazing, there were hundreds of fish. Also went quad biking, which we all enjoyed (though Riya did manage to crash and fall off hers...)

All in all, it was a wonderful holiday

Kanika & Sigrid's Sleepover..


Kanika had Sigrid over for the night.. I made Meat Balls in Satay Sauce for entree and Pad Thai Chicken &  Noodles for dinner.. I trust they enjoyed it. They wanted an ENglish Brekky so I made Cheese & Bacon Omelettes for them with Toast & Juice... And yes they had to have some cereals!

Great News Shruti... Congratulations

SHRUTI CHAUDHRI

I cannot help posting this fantastic news that Shruti has been selected into The University of Cambridge and will be mastering in Mathematics.. She starts in October... Well done Shruts! We're all proud of you babes..

Confession..


When the forces of nature go against you.. when you're dealt with the lowest ebbs of your life.. when all seems wrong.. you sit down and stare at yourself in the mirror and say, "Gosh what had I done to deserve this!" This had been the chapter that I'd been going thru recently in my life... Yes I can share it with my family but till yesterday I had very low self esteem... I saw this huge monster in the mirror(it was me!)... I had definitely not been at my best or anywhere close to my best.. I felt insecure... I felt sad to see my dearest Chacha no more... I felt sad to see my Dad suffering... I felt sad to see my Dear ones hurting... But yes... I think the worst is over... I am SORRY if I have hurt anyone..
I have procrastinated & realised that I cannot change others or I must not attempt to change others but need to change myself and strive to become a better person... keep my positive cap on... focus on my strengths... try and work on my weaknesses... This is my agenda and I will work hard on my SWOT analysis and take positive learnings as life presents itself with its next set of challenges... Wish me luck as I pick up my pieces and move on.. :-)
Hopefully I will become a better person and you all will appreciate that I did some self introspection and worked on improving myself and strive towards perfection which has probably always been my personal goal in life...

Friday 21 August 2009

LOVE YOU BINDO TAYAJI, WE WILL MISS YOU.

Well I have no words to express how we are feeling out here. God has taken away one of our most loved and precious member of the family. We will miss Bindo Tayaji, he was a person who was loved by all, he only believed in giving. He was a selfless person, he always wanted to help and help and help. He was a person with an amazing sense of humour. He always made people laugh and happy around him. We will miss all his humour and the stories of his experiences while on the flight from London to Delhi.

Like other years we were waiting for him to be here with us around October, the time when he usually came to India. The whole family used to wait for his visit. It used to be like Christmas for us, as the whole family used to meet every day having meals together and celebrating his being with us.

Dad, like a small kid used to get excited, a week before Tayaji came. He used to take out all his clothes (kept packed for him to be used here) and put it to air, get all the clothes washed, ironed and stacked properly for him to feel comfortable once he was here. He used to take his annual leaves during Tayaji's visit so that he could be with him and then take him around to Himachal and other places. Dad is going to miss all this.

While Tayaji was unwell, we felt helpless due to the distance between India and UK. We wanted to be with him but could not be there. Thank god Sanjay bhaiya was there by his side and also as a big support to our three sisters.

Tanuka, Ja & Nisha, we might not be very expressive but we all love you three and would always be there by your side. I am proud to be a member of such a lovely family where we all are so close , this brings a huge sense of security.

Bir Tayaji, Sindo Tayaji, Dad & Vijay Chacha, after loosing Bade Tayaji, I know how you must be feeling loosing Bindo Tayaji. We all are with you. May God give you all the strength to face this tragedy.

Gunjan, Arjun and Adhiraj join me in reassuring you how much we love all the members of our family. We will always be there for all you guys. Love you all.

May God take good care of our beloved Bindo Tayaji and give him all happiness. LOVE YOU BINDO TAYAJI, WE WILL MISS YOU.

Thursday 20 August 2009

No words can explain !!

No words can explain how much pain we are all feeling at the moment. Dad had so many good years ahead of him and I cant bear to think that he will never see his Daughters getting married or see any of his Grand Children, although i know he will never leave us in spirit.

I think the only thing out of this, is to be grateful that God was kind to him and did not allow him to suffer. We were with him every step of the way and were with him at his time of passing. He looked very peaceful when he slipped away and just looked like he was sleeping and I guess that is all we can wish for. He fought so hard for his Family, but at some point you have to ask yourself, how long can he keep fighting and putting himself through the pain and heartache of being in and out of Hospital. There comes a point where he has to rest and be comfortable and maybe it was his turn to go and enjoy some time with members of our family who have already passed.

Dad was the best Dad in the entire world and I can't think about how I will get through life without him. I know he will want us all to be strong and that is what we will try to do.
We have had so many kind cards and flowers from a lots of people and we can barely walk past the front door without another one arriving. This shows just how much Dad was loved and will be missed by everyone.

We are all very much looking forward to being with our family in India in the next week (although we wish it could have been on better circumstances).

The only words i can say are "Dad, I love you sooooo much and i cant wait for the day that we meet again. Sleep well and please send my love to our family who you are now resting with in Heaven"

"We will shortly be taking you home to where you belong....................to your beloved India."


Love you more than you will ever know

Your ever loving Daughters

Tanuka, Sujata and Nisha

XX

Tuesday 18 August 2009

May the force be with you..

Heartfelt condolences to Tanuka, Sujata & Nisha from the entire family. May the force be with you! We love you loads and will always be with you through thick & thin.. Take care..

Monday 17 August 2009

Bindo Chacha..a big hearted man

A man with a heart of gold.. always wanting to help people giving them a patient hearing and money for their marriage, house or studies.... he had a great sense of humour, was intelligent and loving... he was my favourite Chacha.
His visit to India from the seventies was an annual ritual which united the entire family of Dad and his five brothers. We had dinners hosted by different family members and had great fun all thru his stay.
He often dropped by to visit us whilst we were studying in Sanawar. As I turned eighteen, I was his official driver, whenever I was around during his visits and it was fun to be around him and his family. He always bought us gifts which no matter what they were always excited us to our hearts's content.
When I moved to England we communicated with each other on a frequent basis. He was always concerned about my well being. He insisted I be around him and his immediate family for Christmas which was a great feeling.
We went for many drives together... in the Yorkshire Dales, to Scotland, to the Lake District, to London and further down to Brighton and enjoyed chatting with him on different aspects of life.
He gave me some very comforting & precious advice as I was going thru my separation & divorce and always asked me to remain calm & composed and not get rattled by what was happening....
He was a true Gentleman.... I wish strength to Tanuka, Sujata, Nisha & the entire family and wish him lots of peace as that is something he truly deserved for the great humanitarian he was...

LOST MY FRIEND AND MY DEAR BROTHER

It is difficult to describe Bindo who was not only my brother but a bosom friend. We shared our sorrows and joys from a very early age. He was my confidant and we always exchanged our experiences all thru our life. It was a strange coincidence that during our younger ages when we were perhaps seven and eight years, we always fell sick together and it was again an irony of misfortune that we were both last year diagnosed with the same disease. It will take me a lot to forget the joys of his company. Alas we were six brothers and now are only four left..
In a way " the light has gone out of my life "

Sunday 16 August 2009

MY EXPERIENCES AT GEETANJALI SHOOL OF DANCE By Kanika Chaudhri


Values are those things that really matter to each one of us, the ideas & beliefs we hold as special. Most of our values are learnt at home or at school or within our social peer group. I have learnt some of the best values thru my dance which I learn at The Geetanjali School of Dance & Performing Arts.

I learn most importantly the value of self discipline thru the timings & importance of being punctual & committed to my dance routines & classes.

The importance of rhythm, melody & co-ordinating ones movements with the entire team performing at the school imbibes a true sense of teamwork and application.

No Dance can be performed without hours of hard work, dedication & concentration and these are important values too that I have learnt.

The importance of sharing & caring is another important aspect of my learning process at the school with my teacher, Mrs. Sharmila Maitro.

We try and blend Indian culture & colourful heritage on Australian platforms be it at Darling Harbour for the Annual Holi Festival, Friendship Fairs at Sydney Olympic Park, or for a social cause to contribute for the betterment of our society.

I have been a student of the Geetanjali School of Dance for over three years now and it has become more of a way of life for me to be learning new dances, mixing with other girls & practicing & finally performing on the big day in front of an audience of wonderful people mainly to spread the rich Indian tradition which is so diverse & intriguing & enjoyable to watch.


Lovely Neighbours in Glenhaven.. God sent!


We've always been lucky to have very nice neighbours. We had wonderful neighbours in Gindurra Avenue & 15 Merrilong St and we've been three times lucky!
We have Josh, Melanie & their little six month old bub, Elizabeth who seem very warm & friendly. Josh works for Corporate Affairs in Optus and his wife is a solicitor for the Privacy Commission.
And we have Anand, Preeti & his two daughters in Year 7 and year 4 who just moved in today. Anand is the Head of Operations of a Multinational Pharmaceutical Company and looks after 52 countries which means he lives out of a suitcase.
They came over today for a drink and we had a nice chat.

Thanks Dad & Mum..

Thank you Dad & Mum for coming over and spending some wonderful times with me. Dad I am sure you will recover very soon. We love you both and and are proud of you & we are what we are because of you.
Its a matter of honour that Sanjay is by Bindo Chacha & the girls during these testing times and has shown such strength of character & commitment to the family.
Dont worry too much as I am sure all will be well... Good luck for your visit to the doctors tomorrow.
As for me I will based on your advice, after discussing with Vishy & receiving great inputs from Rajinder Chacha, start a new chapter and reconstruct my life so don't worry too much about me. I can assure you it will be a chapter that will see more sanity & peace after the rather stormy couple of years I've been thru...
Lotsa Love

Rajiv

Saturday 15 August 2009

Missed this one at Hogs Breath cafe!

Vishy's visit down under..

It was very nice of Vishy to take special time off his busy whirlwind tour of Australia and catch up with me. We spoke of old times and the great times we had together. We spoke of my experiences in the recent past and enjoyed each moment we had in one another's company.
It was dinner at The Lowenbrau (one of my favourite places) followed by Lunch next day at Hogs Breath Cafe, Castle Towers & Coffee at The Coffee Club Rouse Hill.
Kanika captured some moments..















Tuesday 11 August 2009

Temples around Palampur


Himachal Pradesh is often referred to as 'the land of the deities' and I do recall how all thru my childhood we visited the local deities around Palampur & Kangra Valley which was a wonderful experience.
I thought I'd put some information for those interested on the temples around our village and a little about them.

CHAMUNDA DEVI TEMPLE

In Hinduism, Chamunda or Camunda is an aspect of Devi, the supreme mother goddess. The name is a combination of Chanda and Munda, two monsters which Devi killed.

The famous temple of Ma Chamunda is in Kangra district of Himachal Pradesh, India. It is around 10 km west of Palampur, on the Baner river. Around 400 years ago the king and a Brahmin priest prayed to Devi for permission to move the temple to some easily accessible location. Devi appeared to the priest in a dream giving her consent. She directed him to dig in a certain spot and an ancient idol would be found and that idol should be installed in the temple and worshipped as Her form.

The king sent out men to bring the idol. Although they were able to locate it but were not able to lift it. Again Devi appeared to the priest in a dream. She explained that the men could not lift the holy relic because they considered it an ordinary stone. She instructed him to get up early in the morning, take a bath, wear fresh clothes and go to the place in a respectful manner. He did as he was told and found that he could easily lift what a large group of men could not. He told the people that it was the power of the Goddess that brought the idol to the temple.

The temple now depicts scenes from the Devi Mahatmya, Ramayan and Mahabharata. The Devi's image is flanked by the images of Hanuman and Bhairo on either side.

The famous Chamunda Nandikeshwar Dham is an abode of Shiva Shakti since the saga of Puranas. According to a legend, the Goddess Chamunda was enshrined as chief Goddess with the title of Rudra in the battle between demon Jalandhra and Lord Shiva which made this place famous as “Rudra Chamunda”. Another legend has it that “Savarni Manamantra” battle between the gods and demons, Chamunda emerged as Chandika from an eyebrow of Goddess “Kaushiki” and was assigned the task of eliminating the demons “Chand” and “Mund”. Chandika fought a fierce battle with these two demons and at last killed them. Goddess Chandika took the slain heads of the two demons “Chand” and “Mund” to the Goddess “Kaushiki” who being immensely pleased, blessed Chandika and bestowed upon her the title of “Chamunda,” the name which is famous all around the world.

NAINA DEVI TEMPLE

Lord Shiva’s consort Sati once burnt herself alive in Yagna to avenge an insult to Lord Shiva. The distraught Shiva picked her corpse and gyrated his horrified dance. Then Lord Vishnu unleashed his Chakra and cut the Sati’s body into fifty one pieces to save the earth from Shiva’s wrath. All the fifty one places - where parts of Sati's body fell, became known as Shakti Peeths. It is believed that Sati’s eyes fell at the place where this temple is situated. Therefore, this temple is called Naina Devi.

BRAJESHWARI KANGRA TEMPLE

The Brajeshwari Devi temple, located in the old Kangra Township, is said to have been built over the charred breasts of Sati. This shrine, once renown for its great wealth, has been plundered relentlessly over the ages. The first of the plunderers was Mahmud of Ghazni, who looted it in 1009. A mosque was built on the ruins and a garrison was left behind. 35 years later, the local king regained its possession. The shrine was repaired and a replica of the idol was enshrined. The temple was filled with gold, silver and diamonds only to be ransacked again in 1360 by Firoz Tughlaq. Later Emperor Akbar visited the shrine with his Dewan, Todar Mal and restored it to its former grandeur. The temple was razed to the ground by an earthquake in 1905, but a new one came up the very same year, thanks to the Kangra Restoration Committee.

JWALAMUKHI TEMPLE

The Flaming Goddess

Jwalamukhi is 34-km from Kangra and 56 km from Dharamsala. Recognised as one of the 51 Shaktipiths of India, Jwalamukhi's Devi Temple, tended by the followers of Goraknath, is set against a cliff. The picturesque temple, built against a wooded spur, in the Indo-Sikh style, has a dome that was gilded by Mughal Emperor Akbar.

An eternally burning flame that issues from a hollow rock in the sanctum is considered the manifestation of the goddess Devi. During March-April and September-October every year colourful fairs are held during the Navaratra celebrations.

THE LEGEND OF JWALAMUKHI

Jwalamukhi is a famous temple of goddess Jwalamukhi, the deity of flaming mouth, built over some natural jets of combustible gas, believed to be the manifestation of the Goddess. The building is modern with a gilt dome and pinnacles, and possesses a beautiful folding door of silver plates.

Under the gaze of the Dhauladhar range and set amidst the undulating hills that character sub-Himalayan Himachal Sati's tongue is believed to have fallen at Jwalamukhi and the goddess is manifest as tiny flames that burn a flawless blue through fissures in the age old rock.

Raja Bhumi Chand Katoch of Kangra, a great devotee of goddess Durga, dreamt of the sacred place and the Raja set people to find out the whereabouts of the site. The site was traced and the Raja built a temple. The burning flames and the complex have come to be known as Jwalamukhi.

The temple located on a small spur on the Dharamsala-Shimla road at a distance of about 20-kms from the Jwalamukhi Road Railway Station attracts lakhs of pilgrims every year. No idol is located in the temple but only the flames, which come out from the crevices of the rock, are worshipped. They are natural jets of combustible gas.

There is a small platform in front of the temple and a(check usage) big mandap where a huge brass bell presented by the King of Nepal is hung. Usually milk and water are offered and the ahutis or oblations are offered to the sacred flames in the pit, situated in the centre of the temple in between the floor pillars supporting the roof.

The deity is- offered Bhog of Rabri or thickened milk, Misri or candy, seasonal fruits, milk and arti is done. There is a mystic Yantar or diagram of the goddess, which is covered with, shawls, ornaments and mantras are recited. The puja has different 'phases' and goes on practically the whole day. Arti is done five times in the day, Havan is performed once daily and portions of "Durga Saptasati" are recited.

Maharaja Ranjit Singh paid a visit to the temple in 1815 and the dome of the temple was gold-plated by him. Just a few feet above the Jwalamukhi temple there is a six-feet deep pit with a circumference of about three-feet. At the bottom of this pit there is another small pit about one and a half feet deep with hot water bubbling all the time.

CHINTPURNI

Pandit Mai Das ( ) , a Kalia Saraswat Brahman, is generally believed to have established this shrine to Mata Chintpurni Devi in Chhaproh village twenty-six generations ago. Over time this village became known as Chintpurni after the eponymous deity. His descendants still live in Chintpurni and perform archana and puja at the Chintpurni temple.

According to the Kalia family lore, Bhakta Mai Das's father lived in Athoor village in the princely state of Patiala. He was an ardent devotee of Goddess Durga. He had three sons called Devi Das, Durga Das and Mai Das. The youngest one was Mai Das. For various reasons, the family moved to village Rapoh, near Amb (now in District Una, Himachal Pradesh). Just like his father, Mai Das was an intense devotee of goddess Durga and spent much of his time in Durga puja, bhajan and kirtan. His brothers were not too happy with him as Mai Das did not spend much time on affairs of this world. However his father made sure that his worldly needs were met.

Mai Das had got married when his father was still alive. After his father died, his brothers refused to provide any financial support to him. They told him to look after himself and his immediate family. Mai Das had to face many difficulties after he separated from his brothers. However his faith and devotion to Mother Durga remained undiminished as he sincerely believed that Durgaji removes all difficulties for her devotees.

Once Bhakta Mai Das was travelling to his in-laws' place. After a long and tiring walk, he sat down to rest under a Vat tree (banyan tree, Ficus Bengalensis) in a densely forested area. He dozed off and started dreaming. A luminous and beautiful young girl appeared in his dream and said to him, " Mai Das, stay in this place and serve me. That will be best for you." Mai Das woke up with a start and looked around. He could not see any other person nearby and felt quite confused.

Bhakta Mai Das continued on to his in-laws' house. He was still thinking about his dream. Was that really the Devi? If so, how would he carry out the Devi's command? He arrived at the in-laws' house but did not stay there for long as his mind was quite unsettled.

On his way back, he sat down under the same Vat tree and began to concentrate his thoughts on Durga Mata. He prayed, "O Mother, I have but a small mind and cannot comprehend your powers. If you consider me a true devotee, please present yourself and remove all my doubts". Upon hearing Mai Das's prayer, Durga Mata appeared in front of Mai Das in her Chaturbhuj form sitting astride a lion. Mai Das fell to the Devi's feet and prayed to her, "O Bhagavati, do command me. How may I serve you that my life be best spent at your lotus feet?"

Durga Mata said, "I have been living at this very place for many, many years but in the Kali Yug people had neglected this spot. I will now appear under this tree in the form of a pindi (a round stone). Perform puja for me every day."

Mai Das was still somewhat reluctant to live there as panthers and other wild animals abounded in the dense forest. Also as that spot was on a hill-top, there was no known source of water nearby. Durga Mata pointed to a place on the northern slope of the hill and told him to dig out a stone under which he would find a spring of fresh water.

She gave him a mantra - Namaskar mantra :

"om eM kleeM hreeM shri bhayanaashini hooN hooN phaT swaha "

so that he would have no fear. She also gave him the Mool Mantra -

"om eM hreeM kleeM chamunDaay vichchayah".

She said, "In the past I have been known as Chhinnamastika. From now on people will also call me Chintapurni as I have removed all your doubts and worries. My devotees will arrange to have a temple built here. Whatever offerings are made should be sufficient for you and your descendants. " The Goddess gave him a few other instructions and disappeared.

Mai Das went to the spot to which Devi had pointed to look for water. His joy knew no bounds when he removed the stone and a stream of crystal clear and sweet water gushed forth. A water tank was built there subsequently. Water from this tank is reserved for the use of the Temple.

Bhakta Mai Das built a small hut for himself near the water tank and began regular worship of the Devi's pindi at the hill-top. A few years after, devotees built a small temple which has gradually been expanded.

Pandit Mai Das's samadhi is located a short distance away on the eastern side of the water tank.

Twenty six generations later, his descendants continue to offer worship to Shri Chintpurni Devi. The forest has more or less disappeared and the area has become more settled. Although the village is still called Chhaproh in government land records, it is generally known as Chintpurni after the Devi who resides there.

Tales about the miraculous powers of the Devi have spread far and wide. Thousand of devotees visit the temple every year and particularly so during the Navaratras in Shravan (August), Kartik (October) and Chaitra (March-April). Sankranti, Purnima and Ashtami are the other popular days.

Monday 10 August 2009

Karma... Look what I researched..interesting!

"Karma" literally means "deed" or "act", and more broadly names the universal principle of cause and effect, action and reaction, which Hindus believe governs all consciousness. [4],

Karma is not fate, for man acts with free will creating his own destiny
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The Vedas tell us that if we sow goodness, we will reap goodness; if we sow evil, we will reap evil. Karma refers to the totality of our actions and their concomitant reactions in this and previous lives, all of which determine our future. The conquest of karma lies in intelligent action and dispassionate reaction. Not all karmas rebound immediately. Some accumulate and return unexpectedly in this or other births. [4] We produce Karma in four ways [5]:

  • through thoughts
  • through words
  • through actions that we perform ourselves
  • through actions others do under our instructions

Everything that we have ever thought, spoken, done or caused is Karma; as is also that which we think, speak or do this very moment. [6] Hindu scriptures divide karma into three kinds[6] :

  • Sanchita is the accumulated karma. It would be impossible to experience and endure all Karmas in one life. From this stock of sanchita karma, a handful is taken out to serve one lifetime and this handful of actions, which has begun to bear fruit and which will be exhausted only on their fruit being enjoyed and not otherwise, is known as prarabdha karma.
  • Prarabdha Fruit-bearing karma is the portion of accumulated karma that has "ripened" and appears as a particular problem in the present life.
  • Kriyamana is everything that we produce in current life. All kriyamana karmas flow in to sanchita karma and consequently shape our future. Only in human life we can change our future destiny. After death we loose Kriya Shakti (ability to act) and do (kriyamana) karma until we are born again in human body.

Actions performed consciously are weighted more heavily than those done unconsciously. But just as poison affects us if taken unknowingly, suffering caused unintentionally will also give appropriate karmic effect. Only human beings that can distinguish right from wrong can do (kriyamana) Karma. [5] Animals and young children are not creating new Karma (and thus can not affect their future destiny) as they are incapable of discriminating between right and wrong. However, all sentient beings can feel the effects of Karma, which are experienced as pleasure and pain. [7]

Sri Tulsidas, a great Hindu saint, said: "Our destiny was shaped long before the body came into being." [8] As long as the stock of sanchita karma lasts, a part of it continues to be taken out as prarabdha karma for being enjoyed in one lifetime, leading to the cycle of birth and death. A Jiva cannot attain moksha until the accumulated sanchita karmas are completely exhausted.[9]

The cycle of birth and death on earth is formed from 8.4 millions forms of life and only one of them is human. Only as humans, are we in position to do something about our destiny by doing the right thing at the right time. Through positive actions, pure thoughts, prayer, mantra and meditation, we can resolve the influence of the karma in present life and turn the destiny for the better. A spiritual master knowing the sequence in which our Karma will bear fruit, can help us. As humans we have the opportunity to speed up our spiritual progress with practice of good Karma. We produce negative karma because we lack knowledge and clarity. [8]

Unkindness yields spoiled fruits, called paap, and good deeds bring forth sweet fruits, called punya. As one acts, so does he become: one becomes virtuous by virtuous action, and evil by evil action. [4]

Sunday 9 August 2009

Sanjay & his family holidaying in Egypt


Sanjay, Shalini, Shruti & Riya are enjoying themselves by the Red Sea in Egypt. Hope we get some nice pictures of their holiday.

Saturday 8 August 2009

Mum & Dad return to India next week!


Mum & Dad's wonderful visit comes to an end as they move to India next week. Kanika & I really enjoyed their company as we spent loads of time together having fun, eating out, shopping, moving homes & even just relaxing watching movies in the confines of the home.

Thanks to both of you for coming over & looking forward to meeting you in England next month... Thanks to all my friends for extending their hospitality & being so affectionate & nice to them during their stay in Australia.