Sunday 25 May 2008

61 Grove Lane; the garden gets a make over

At last there serious work has gone on in the garden. This is Clematis for the trellis at the back of the garden.


This is the new bit of lawn at the back. It should please Bindo Chacha who always felt that the garden needed a bit of a lawn. The big pot with the Cordylline is my work.


The new parasol is in place and we hope to have some decking to go in at this end of the garden.


Riya was very keen on the trampoline and weather permitting she should spend some time expending her energies outdoors instead of watching television.





Saturday 24 May 2008

Jai Mata Di!!!

As Mum & Dad embark to Vaishno Devi on a family trip with Cuckoo Masi, Ajay Uncle, Amit, Jyoti, Sanjeev Uncle & Kavita Mami, we wish them a pleasant journey and trust they have a memorable one too.
A FEW FACTS ABOUT VAISHNO DEVI FOR THE YOUNGER GENERATION
Shri Mata Vaishno Devi Shrine is one of the oldest shrine of India, located at a height of 5300 feet on the holy Trikuta Hills of the Shivalik Hill Range. The Holy cave is 13 Kms from the Base Camp Katra. The Town Katra is 50 Kms away from Jammu and 35 Kms from District HQ Udhampur and is linked by road. The Mata Vaishno Devi Shrine is one of the most popular Shrines of India. The Goddess Mata Vaishno Devi's abode is in 100 feet long cave with a narrow opening. The holy cold and crystal clear water washes the lotus feet of the Mata's "Pindian". There are three natural pindies representing Maha Sarswati, Maha Lakshmi, Maha Kali, which represent creative, preservative, and destructive aspects of the Super Power. It is an ancient shrine whose reference is found in the Vedas and ancient scriptures.History:'Vaishnavi' means the one who is related to lord "Vishnu''. Goddess Vaishnavi is the manifestation of the collective spiritual strengths of Mata Maha Kali, Mata Maha Lakshmi and Mata Maha Saraswati. It is described in Durga Sapatshati that the goddess was born as a young girl of extraordinary beauty and strength, out of the collectively pooled 'Tejas' of various 'Devtas' and three lords Brahma, Vishnu and Shankar. The immediate purpose of the creation of the goddess was the annihilation of Asura (Devil) Mahishasura. However another purpose of her creation was that she might usher on earth an era of pious and ascetic life so that the peace could prevail upon the world and she through her penance could rise to higher levels of spirituality and ultimately merge with Vishnu.The 'Goddess' having been created by the Devtas and the three lords ordained the human form in the house of one Ratnakar as his daughter whom the family named as Vaishnavi. The girl right from her childhood displayed a hunger for knowledge which was like a vortex and which no amount of teaching and learning could sufficiently satiate. Subsequently, Vaishnavi started looking into her inner self for knowledge and soon learned the art of meditation and realized that meditation and penance only could bring her close to her greater objective. Vaishnavi thus relinquished all household comforts and went deep into the forest for Tapasaya (meditation). Meanwhile, Lord Rama, during his fourteen years of exile happened to visit Vaishnavi who recognized him immediately as no ordinary being but the incarnation of Lord Vishnu and immediately asked him to merge her into himself so that she could become one with the supreme creator. However Lord Rama, knowing that it was not the appropriate time, dissuaded her by saying that he will visit her again after the end of his exile and at that time if she succeeded in recognizing him, he will fulfill her wish. True to his words, Rama visited her again after being victorious in the battle, but this time he did so in the guise of an old man. Unfortunately, Vaishnavi was unable to recognize him this time and was distraught. Upon this, Lord Rama consoled her that the appropriate time for her being one with the creator had not come and he will eventually do so in 'Kaliyug' in his incarnation of 'Kalki'. Rama also directed her to meditate and set up an Ashram at the base of Trikuta hills to elevate her level of spirituality so as to bless the mankind and rid the poor and destitute of their sufferings and only then will 'Vishnu' merge her into himself. The 'Goddess' having been created by the Devtas and the three lords ordained the human form in the house of one Ratnakar as his daughter whom the family named as Vaishnavi. The girl right from her childhood displayed a hunger for knowledge which was like a vortex and which no amount of teaching and learning could sufficiently satiate. Subsequently, Vaishnavi started looking into her inner self for knowledge and soon learned the art of meditation and realized that meditation and penance only could bring her close to her greater objective. Vaishnavi thus relinquished all household comforts and went deep into the forest for Tapasaya (meditation). Meanwhile, Lord Rama, during his fourteen years of exile happened to visit Vaishnavi who recognized him immediately as no ordinary being but the incarnation of Lord Vishnu and immediately asked him to merge her into himself so that she could become one with the supreme creator. However Lord Rama, knowing that it was not the appropriate time, dissuaded her by saying that he will visit her again after the end of his exile and at that time if she succeeded in recognizing him, he will fulfill her wish. True to his words, Rama visited her again after being victorious in the battle, but this time he did so in the guise of an old man. Unfortunately, Vaishnavi was unable to recognize him this time and was distraught. Upon this, Lord Rama consoled her that the appropriate time for her being one with the creator had not come and he will eventually do so in 'Kaliyug' in his incarnation of 'Kalki'. Rama also directed her to meditate and set up an Ashram at the base of Trikuta hills to elevate her level of spirituality so as to bless the mankind and rid the poor and destitute of their sufferings and only then will 'Vishnu' merge her into himself. Vaishnavi, after immense hardships reached the foot of the Trikuta Hills and after setting up her ashram there she began to meditate. As predicted by Lord Rama, her glory spread far and wide and people began to flock to her Ashram to seek her blessings. As the time passed, a Tantrik named Gorakh Nath who had a vision of the episode between Lord Rama and Vaishnavi in the retrospective time frame, became curious to find out whether Vaishnavi has been able to attain a high level of spirituality or not. He, therefore, sent his most able disciple 'Bhairon Nath' to find out the truth. Bhairon Nath on locating the ashram started observing Vaishnavi secretly and realised that though a 'Sadhvi' she always carried bow and arrows with her and was always surrounded by langoors (apes) and a ferocious looking lion. Bhairon Nath was enamored by Vaishnavi's extraordinary beauty and losing all good sense he began to pester Vaishnavi to marry him. Meanwhile a staunch devotee of Mata Sridhar organised a Bhandara (Community meal) in which the whole village and Guru Gorakh Nath along with all his followers including Bhairon were invited. During the course of Bhandara Bhairon Nath attempted to grab Vaishnavi but she tried her best to daunt him. On failing to do so, Vaishnavi decided to flee away into the mountains to continue her 'Tapasaya' undisturbed. Bhairon Nath however chased her to her destination. The goddess after halting at Banganga, Charan Paduka, and Adhkwari, finally reached the holy cave Shrine. When Bhairon Nath continued to follow her despite the goddess trying to avoid a confrontation, the goddess was compelled to kill him. Bhairon Nath met his ultimate fate when the goddess, just outside the mouth of the cave, beheaded him. The severed head of Bhairon fell with a force at a distant hilltop. Bhairon Nath upon death realised the futility of his mission and prayed to the deity to forgive him. The almighty 'Mata' had mercy on Bhairon and gave him a boon that every devotee of the goddess shall have to have the Darshans of Bhairon after having the Darshans of the goddess and only then shall the yatra of a devotee be complete. Meanwhile, Vaishnavi decided to shed off her human form and assuming the face of a rock she immersed her self into meditation forever.

JAI MATA DI!!!!

Wednesday 21 May 2008

Kanika scrapes through her Level 01 Piano Exam!!

Kanika gave her level 01 Piano exam at the Australian Music Education Board of NSW in Sydney and heaved a sigh of relief as she cleared it with a low grade though but it was an achievement as this was the first time she'd given a music exam. She spent the rest of the day with me in the city and Yujita took her out for lunch. Well done Kanika!!! You are the most beautiful person in the world!



Participating in CEBit-The Biggest IT Expo in the Southern Hemisphere

It is fantastic to be participating at The CE Bit 2008 in Sydney which is the largest IT Expo in the Southern hemisphere going on at Darling Harbour Convention Centre in Sydney. Pictures of me and few members of my team..





My favourite hobby... Gardening

One of my favourite hobbies is gardening and I did some work on my hanging baskets and thought I'd share some pictures with the family!






Kanika Dances for Baisakhi mela

Kanika performed three dances at The Baisakhi mela earlier this month. Enjoy some pictures of her...




Saturday 17 May 2008

Mukta , Amit & Jyoti are here in INDIA

It is a great privilege to host Mukta, Amit & Jyoti. Ajay is expected to arrive in India on 18th May,08. We decided to visit Jaipur on 13-15th May 08. On arrival we decided to visit the famous Amber palace where Jodha Akbar was borne and brought up. IMG_0242 IMG_0235 IMG_0229

It was a breath taking experience but the same evening about an hour after we passed through Jaipur, there were serial blasts. We stayed in Chokhi Dhani, a five star resort just outside Jaipur

Since the town was placed under curfew , we had to cancel our trip and return to Delhi next day

Friday 16 May 2008

some more pictures






So i thought i would add some more photos. I have to include a few silly ones of me and my two "older" sisters (although looking at us you would never think were that mature :-) )
One extra one of Tanukas rabbit who is the best natured animal i have seen for along time, but thats cos of the love he gets at home, from both Tanuka and Dad....and Dad you know you love him :-)

And then probably my favourite photo of all time (which i did get permission to show) my gorgoeus father. The man that has done everything for me through my whole life. I will always be grateful for everything he has done for me, Ja and Tanuka for the rest of my life.

I love you Dad XXX

Hello All from York





Now you have to forgive me even though i work in IT you still won't believe that i can't figure out how to use this site hahaha.


Anyway here goes. I thought that since you have all been very nice in sending me your congratulations on my future wedding, i thought it only fair to send you all a picture of Simon so here he is :-)

He is from Northern Ireland and hes the sweetest boy in the world. We are both coming, along with Ja and Dad to India this October and i can't wait. But if you think i am excited, you should see Simon, i think his bags are packed already hahahah.


Also for comedy effect i had to add this one of Tanuka, Ja and Simon. We all went to a Cowboys and Indians New Years Eve party in 2006 and this picture always makes me laugh, even just the fact that Ja and Tanuka are so small next to Simon :-)


Tuesday 13 May 2008

Now thats called family spirit!!! Thanks Nish..

Hello Rajiv

Hope everything is well with you all in Sunny Australia, you will be surprised to hear that its actually been very warm in the Uk for over a week now..... i know its hard to believe hahahah
Can you please send me an invitation to the Chaudhry Blogsite again so i can post some pictures on there. For some reason its saying that the invitation has expired.

Anyway love to everyone there and speak to you soon

Take Care
Nish

Sunday 4 May 2008

You cannot afford to miss this one!!!

I thought I must share this video with the family as it had me in splits! Click the link below to watch it:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=KA2B5X0LhMY&feature=related

Pommy Indians do have Talent!!!