Thursday, 20 August 2009

No words can explain !!

No words can explain how much pain we are all feeling at the moment. Dad had so many good years ahead of him and I cant bear to think that he will never see his Daughters getting married or see any of his Grand Children, although i know he will never leave us in spirit.

I think the only thing out of this, is to be grateful that God was kind to him and did not allow him to suffer. We were with him every step of the way and were with him at his time of passing. He looked very peaceful when he slipped away and just looked like he was sleeping and I guess that is all we can wish for. He fought so hard for his Family, but at some point you have to ask yourself, how long can he keep fighting and putting himself through the pain and heartache of being in and out of Hospital. There comes a point where he has to rest and be comfortable and maybe it was his turn to go and enjoy some time with members of our family who have already passed.

Dad was the best Dad in the entire world and I can't think about how I will get through life without him. I know he will want us all to be strong and that is what we will try to do.
We have had so many kind cards and flowers from a lots of people and we can barely walk past the front door without another one arriving. This shows just how much Dad was loved and will be missed by everyone.

We are all very much looking forward to being with our family in India in the next week (although we wish it could have been on better circumstances).

The only words i can say are "Dad, I love you sooooo much and i cant wait for the day that we meet again. Sleep well and please send my love to our family who you are now resting with in Heaven"

"We will shortly be taking you home to where you belong....................to your beloved India."


Love you more than you will ever know

Your ever loving Daughters

Tanuka, Sujata and Nisha

XX

2 comments:

Rajiv said...

I totally agree with you all that he was a true champion.. a great person.. a noble soul... Well done for taking such nice care of him as he always said to us that you girls took great care of him all thru... We're proud of you and will miss him dearly though he will always remain with us in our hearts and in spirit..

Anonymous said...

Tanuka,Sujata &Nisha,
We are proud of you and your thinking. Bhupinder, Bindo as we called him with affection was not only my very dearest brother but also a person with whom I shared everything
We cannot give you but he could but you three be rest assured that I look towards you as part of my own flesh. Sanjay is luckily in England. You could always fall back on him for any advice and help. As I used to tell your dad,he was like his own son to him and I feel proud that he met the commitments of a good son/ nephew